''WHO IS YOUR BIGGEST MOTIVATOR? ''

  

                  

            At present, people prefer to talk more instead of listen. Everyone wants to convey their story to other people but no one wants to hear it. Precisely, no one is ready to be a good listener. Even so, we have been hearing for years that only a good listener can be a good speaker still no one seems to be running in the listener’s race these days because they must have liked to be crushed in the crowd of speakers.

 

              At the moment, everyone is trying to convey their situation or message to someone but you can’t underestimate that not everyone who listens to you, pays close attention to your words. More so, people just pretend to listen to you but actually, they do not because everyone is keen interested in talking only. The reason of that people is less inclined to listen, even if they feel listening is a deficiency of humans. Moreover, people consider that a person who speaks is better than a person who listens but it is a clear lie. I believe this is the biggest misconstruction in the human head.

          I would prefer to say that, listening is an art that never causes any harm to a person as long as the more a person listens, the more intelligent he becomes. Sometimes, a human's words can put him in trouble but what he hears gives him the prime knowledge of how to get out of that predicament. That's why a person must listen to the people around him as everyone wants someone to listen. More to the point, listening increases human's ideological power at the same time human becomes extra intellectual. I believe, that when a person starts listening to his mind while listening to others, no one in this world can pull back to him. The reason for that, listening to our inner voice is a million times more inspiring than listening to any inspirational speech. 

        The inspiration man gets from his soul is that inspiration he cannot get from anything else. Our inner voice is an ultimate source of inspiration for us because everyone who speaks to us in our life can be calm but the voice of our mind will never be quiet. Whereas, our inner voice talks to us 24 hours a day. Even in your dream your inner voice doesn't remain silent. That's why we always say that, when all the options run out, you should listen to your inner voice and introspect yourself every day. This habit can make a person best day by day and every day can be inspirational.

              In the end, when a man initiates to listen to his inner voice automatically he becomes more magisterial because his inner voice amplifies his pontifical power. Moreover, any power in this world seems zero to him in front of his inner voice and inner power.

 WRITTEN BY- VAISHALI ASHIK KHATIKMARE 

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''DEATH HAS BECOME SO CHEAP NOWADAYS; WE MUST HAVE TO LIVE WELL AND MAKE OUR LIVES MORE EXPENSIVE''

 

                    ''Happiness is created by nature and when it comes to the human, it doesn't take long to transform into misery.''  Generally, many things happen to us every day. Every one of us considers it bad and good according to our thought process. However, no one knows what will happen next to human life. Something unexpected may happen also. Moreover, the main reason why human life is said to be unstable is that every day lot of unexpected things happen. We can say that humans can get tired but life remains with ups and downs. These ups and downs of human life always take new turns and keep humans trapped in the maze. 

                       All in all, I believe God wants to see how human emerges from this maze. I will say that human is very tolerant as in the 20th-century human has become accustomed to these cycles and mazes. These days human is not afraid of anything except themselves. As long as human fear is driven away by their fear. More to the point, human is not even afraid of death as well, instead, he thinks that death is the easiest thing on earth. That is why we see an increased number of suicides. As I admitted, the human being is afraid of himself, the reason for that is ''when a human being begins to lose control of his self or mind, automatically thoughts of suicide come to his mind. That time he pays close attention to whether he will lose his whole control or not because he is afraid to lose his mind. More so, when a human suddenly loses his mental control unexpectedly his body becomes crippled. Sequentially it does not take long for that human to leave the world.

                    Believe it or not, all the time when nature gives good news to a human being, before enjoying that news, human starts evaluating about it is useful or useless, while this he forgets the joy of that news and automatically he makes that moment sad with his thoughts. Human is very quick in negative thoughts on the contrary he is super slow in positive thoughts. If we speculate about it, happiness is the easiest thing in human lives. Happiness is the only precious thing that you can get without paying money, but sometimes it is just as true that you can’t sustain that happiness for long because of your negative thoughts.

              I believe, there is an art of sustaining happiness. Such as, if we start to accept the ups and downs of life and move on positively by accepting the good and bad things, we can skillfully enjoy the highest happiness in life. Additionally, if we choose this path humans will not have to go on for happiness to get pleasure. No doubt, happiness will run for you. That is why I am underlining it today, Death has become very cheap these days, so it is time to live well and make our lives more meaningful by giving value to the happiness that we get naturally and effortlessly.

    

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"REPUBLIC DAY-INDEPENDENCE DAY ARE NOT ONLY MEANT TO BE CELEBRATED ON WHATSAPP STATUS-STORIES, SIGNIFICANCE OF THESE TWO DAYS ARE INNUMERABLE ''

             

          Today every Indian celebrates the 73rd Republic day (Platinum Jubilee of Republic day). Our country is ready for the next step. According to the elders in the 19th century Republic Day and Independence Day were celebrated like Diwali. In the past, 15th August and 26th January were the student's and workers' most favorite days. No, they were not excited about the Government holiday that time everyone was used to being excited about flag hoisting, students rallies, area-wise programs, military parades, etc., etc. Everyone was used to trying to showcase - show off their art skills on this historical day as 26th January and 15 August was a precious feeling for them.

             In 19th century Republic, day or Independence day mornings was always begun with three colors rainbow in the sky moreover sky was used to be adorned with trio balloons, National anthem tunes, trio color dresses, specific uniforms for students and workers, road rallies with India's flags, Independence day sessions at various places, etc., etc. Kids used to be super happy on this day as they used to get toffees from schools so, they used to be excited about that as well. At that time, everyone used to feel that we have become Independent on this day that is why they used to celebrate this day with proper joy. Now let’s talk about the 20th century even though we are super independent and advanced in every way, every technology still it is rare to see that kind of feeling of pride on everyone's face. As long as, everyone is celebrating our Republic or Independence Day on their 30 seconds WhatsApp status or Instagram stories. Right? It's the eternal truth of this social media world.

         At the present, people used to celebrate this kind of day on WhatsApp, Instagram, Facebook, etc., etc. Just posting the status on WhatsApp makes them think that they have celebrated the day or festival, but why people do not understand? The significance - importance of these days. Moreover, we have to understand these days are not meant to be celebrated on social media. If we start to celebrate these days in the right way, only then our next generation will understand how their previous generation has gained Independence. 

         At least, parents need to pass on to their children the knowledge and significance of these days as we can preserve our history through our actions. We should salute the National flag in front of our children at home on this day, every year even though it has become difficult for these things to happen in school during these online study periods but every parent should have to celebrate 26th January and 15th August with their children's at their own home, because this is an important need to keep Independent day and Republic day alive.

 

                                     JAI HIND!  VANDE MATRAM

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''WE ARE ALL BORN AS A POSTMAN AND DIES AS A POSTMAN"

 

         A human being is a lifelong postman of someone's life. Human is born unknowingly as a postman and dies as a postman. Precisely it’s true because when a human is born he brings joy to all, he starts posting all the letters by his feelings hence automatically he becomes a postman of someone's life. The family, society around us shares their joys and sorrows and many emotions with someone. That sharing means unknowingly we are posting someone's emotional letters to someone.

 

        Every human being is like a postman, so it is safe to say that a human being is a postman by birth because there is a chain of being a postman. There is a series of how to post one thing to another and this succession is growing day by day. If one person shares a story with another person, it reaches' the next 50 people in a very short time. We can say that spreading things is a basic human trait or a favourite hobby of human beings. Meanwhile human forgets that he is unknowingly becoming a postman while doing this work. Moreover, it’s nice to be a postman, "a postman of our people live." As we know the history of the postman is that letters and messages from different emotions and different persons come to the postman and he sends that message to the right people, what a wonderful thing postman does, there is no doubt. You will not know the significance of this in the time of WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram, etc., etc.

 

        Today, everyone sends their feelings, messages to each other from WhatsApp, Facebook with a pinch, but the postman is missing because the heaviness in their letters is not in today's chatting, and it is equally true. Today we have many people but it would have been very difficult to meet that real postman, a real human. Everyone wants someone who will go straight to the right person and send their message honestly without telling this to 50 people. Today everyone is a postman but it is rare to meet an honest postman. The human dies but the postman in human never dies because he goes on giving innumerable things. The postman in a human lives alive even after he dies, because the things, memories, feelings given by a human remain the same after he dies.

 

       So if you want to live after death, be an honest and good postman because humans will remember that honest and good postman even if he is not. Understand the feelings of your people and reach out to the right person because the person dies, time passes, and everything can be destroyed but the feeling lives on forever, and the postman who keeps the emotions alive lives in everyone's mind forever.

 

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"YOUNGER GENERATION SPENDS 400+ HOURS A MONTH ON SOCIAL MEDIA!"

     In this day and age, social media has become an integral part of our lives. In the past, people used to do daily morning tasks after waking up, but nowadays people browse their social media after waking up for the first 20 to 30 minutes. Social media is a system that does not allow a human to get drilled, new things are constantly surfacing and we can say that humans are stuck in it while gawking. Social media is a circle from which humans can not easily come out. Of course, there is no way out of the circle. Social media has glued to humans like a magnet. 

         According to a 2019-2020 worldwide survey, a person spends an average of 145 minutes to 200 minutes on social media in a day. In addition, he checks his phone every 10-15 minutes a day, and supreme of all, he never gets bored. WhatsApp status chats, Instagram stories-reels, YouTube, and Facebook he plays all the time. However, while watching it he neglects the outside world. Yes, individuals forget everything like thirst, hunger, work, etc., etc... If we evaluate our 24 hours, we receive 8 hours for sleep, 8 hours for work and after these all we spent the rest of the time on social media, yes is it serious !... 

       However, there are numerous side effects and some favorable things you can get from using social media as well. But overuse of social media can be malignant for youth...As we all know, excessive use of mobiles has reduced the physical activity of human beings, additionally it weakening the physique plus brain of the new generation. I would prefer to say, instead of using social media teens should focus on their studies and career. The reason for that, their future must be made successful by progress. As long as, new and old things keep coming on social media but your time will not come back so you should pay maximum attention to your work and future. Parents should spend aware of the fact that their child should use mobile for a minimum period.

          Nowadays our education, work, and all the important things in daily life are done online but apart from that time you should at least go offline and you have to go for some physical activity to reinforce the power of your brain and body, give some time to meditate. Sequentially, face-to-face communication is very important with our elders.

      We have to think about it. Open the window beyond social media and see the environment around you. There is no other pleasure like this when you see nature around you with all your heart. So stay connected with nature as much as possible then you will feel always happy. 

     

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"HUMAN DOESN'T LOSE HIM SELF IN CROWD, HE LOSES WHEN HE IS ALONE "

        

         We always say that human is social animals. The whole life of a human in particular words like his eating-drinking, talking, and behaving all are taken up by the society around him, on the other hand, we can say, human always judges another one. Precisely, judging each other is lifecycle. Gossiping is an accurate adornment word for this cycle and now it's a world of social media. There are dozens of virtual groups for these things but in this stressful life and inside the world of social media. human is looking for solitude. Moreover, humans are dying for solitude. What do you think humans can live in solitude? ……………………  I suspect ………… NO.

          A human always tries to spend alone time to get rid of the crowd, at that time he stops expressing himself and starts living unengaged but when he wants to be alone, there is the real-time to communicate and express himself. It's real-time to mix up with people, there is the real-time to find happiness in the crowd. At that time, he should address and convey with his loved ones to resolve his existing deals. Although, humans are social animals by nature. They are descendants of the crowd. Moreover, we always say that if a man wants to go far, he should take someone with him and start the journey.

         On the other hand, if he decides to get out of the crowd, he may be left alone for the rest of his life and this could be fatal because when human lives with humans, he becomes better, his life becomes happier and he can make himself happy by seeing the people around him. So, when you want to be alone, do the opposite, go into the crowd, communicate and feel free and try to be happy.
       Due to the fact, that humans don't lose when they are in a crowd, they lose when they are alone. Humans think that they will be happy in solitude but due to solitude things can be terrible because during the idea of solitude humans can lose themselves even though they can be psycho as well, it’s possible theoretically. The reason for this is humans can be weakened when they spend more time alone, during this period they judge themselves more and compares themselves more with other humans and it is very dangerous for their mental and physical health. Because the thought of you are weaker than others is very harmful and deadly.

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