WHY MARRIAGE IS SACRED?

 

       Marriage is a very crucial ritual in India. It is performed with love, spirituality, family, and community. In our holy scriptures marriage is called a sacred rite and it is an endless blessing given to the bride and groom by the witness of family and society. Moreover, it is written in our religious scriptures that marriage is a penance that we need to fulfill honestly, lovingly, and responsibly. Marriage is a divine partnership. Even, our elders have lovely families because they have fulfilled this bond of marriage very heavenly till today.

     In particular, google records that the 1st marriage took place on earth 4000 years ago, and to date, marriages are taking place but what do you think about present marriages?  At the moment, marriage is being celebrated, as it is shown in our religious scriptures?  It is safe to say that, the wedding has become a kind of event. As well as, divorce is more common nowadays than weddings. Why? Do you have this question too?  Because today’s generation is gradually getting rid of the concept of marriage. Even though man is updating progressively but we cannot deny the valuable things in our religious scriptures.

      Today’s youth are ruining the sacred bond of marriage by imitating western culture. Marriage is accompanied by love, affection, rites, blessings of elders, religious worships, rituals, and traditions. But, these all things are downcast for the new generation as they may find the concept of life in a relationship effortless than this. Still, they should also know that the notion of living in a relationship spoils the institution of marriage. On the other hand, the concept of marriage is considered a sacred rite in the village but what about cities?. 

         At this point, to inculcate decent culture in our future generations and brighten their futures, we should avoid imitating western culture at least in this concern. We must understand the ethical values of the Vedic Shastra. Similarly, we must emphasize the unethical way of live-in relationships. More to the point, The new generation must avoid premarital lovemaking and the misconception of marriage. Instead, they should give significance to the institution of marriage by establishing love, support, unity, commitments, and family by marrying according to the tradition stated in our scriptures. The elders should have revived the mentality of the current generation according to our spirituality.

        Undoubtedly, love is the most fascinating and sacred aspect in the universe but after love, it is more sacred to marry based on scriptures. Eventually, a wedding performed by our family, guests, witnessing god and nature is considered the most sacred ritual in our society and scriptures. Ultimately, the generation needs to maintain its sanctity. They should prefer to consider marriage a sacred ceremony to maintain the institution of marriage. In the end, marriage is only a way for our current generation to have delightful life for their future generations. That is why they need to accept marriage honestly and give moral justice to this for our joyous and affluent life.

Written by -Vaishali Ashok Khatikmare

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‘’NOWADAYS, INDIVIDUALS DON’T LIKE TO RUN AWAY FROM THEIR FEAR, RATHER THEY PREFER TO OVERCOME THEIR FEAR SENSIBLY’’

 

         ‘’FEAR’’ this four-letter word is dangerous and extremely crucial in human existence. Because fear has the same place in human life as happiness. I believe, fear is also a very attractive emotion of human life as fear is an ornament of emotions. As well as, fear teaches humans how to overcome their deficiencies. Sequentially, it is safe to say that, when a person is afraid of something his life becomes more rhetorical because at that time he begins to feel the feeling of fear more closely.

        On the other hand, humans can be afraid of anything. However, fear means not about ghosts or darkness. Fear can be of anything like temptation, fear of exam, fear of failure, fear of life anything. You can afraid of anything as it’s totally upon your pontifical power, imaginations as well. Furthermore, fear is self-created emotion due to our upbringings. Also, fear is an illusion of our mind. Moreover, as I noticed, at the present, people are not afraid at all, more than that people prefer to face fear as long as they like to deal with the fear. Because we can positively say that their self-confidence has increased over time. I would prefer to say that, human is also updated with technologies. Yes! Human is getting updated day by day.

        As I mentioned in the heading, the human doesn’t like to run away from their fear because meanwhile, he thinks about how to get rid of that fear as soon as possible. Moreover, human tries to learn whale of things from their everyday errors. Humans are not even afraid at all of their pessimism, as he finds the way out for his every fear because he becomes fearless with the experience of everyday circumstances. The reason for that, since humans are becoming more educated they have started to understand fear as a psychological self-created emotion. I conceive, when a person starts to scare something either he becomes extremely powerful or he becomes feeble but both of these conditions depend on his dogmatic power.

      More to the point, you may say that, how can this happen? A person can be afraid of anything. But many times it is up to the person to be afraid or to overcome it judiciously. Human knows that fear has boundaries and our tireless efforts can eliminate any kind of fear. That is why, at the present, human is less afraid of everything. More so, it is a really good thing that humans' fear has diminished progressively because fear can make humans faint but nowadays it is the other way around. At the present, humans are overcoming their fear on their own. When a scary thing happens in human life that time that human tries to be more dominant and robust, it is an admitting aspect of human life.

          As we know, humans and fear are a very old equation but now finally, it’s coming to an end. Sequentially, it is the most significant thing for the welfare of human life. As long as, the thought that we can overcome fear can take a human out of the entanglement of life and help him to catch his extremely high goals. In the end, I would like to say that, have a fear-free life for you all.

WRITTEN BY - VAISHALI ASHOK KHATIKMARE 

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